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Name: mark.
Country: Canada
Metro: Sarnia
Birthday: 11/1/1981
Gender: Male
Interests: myHeavenlyFather, mykates~*, mycars.
Expertise: filing patents. holding babies.
(not necessarily in that order...)
Occupation: Legal
Industry: Business
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Member Since:
12/6/2005
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| ok. so every once in a while one realizes that changes need to be made. get back on track. re-focus. slap yourself up side the head. for me it seems to happen to varying degrees at varying intervals.
i have been sicker in the last 3 months than the last three years. i have been more tired/lethargic in the last three months than in the last 3 years. and emotionally, i’ve been a roller-coaster.
timeforsomechanges.
oreo ice-cream sandwich, doritos & coke for lunch/dinner = bad for energy. bad for blood sugar. bad for immune system.
tuna sandwich with tomato/lettuce/cheese & pasta salad with ice-tea = good for energy. good for blood sugar. good for immune system
continuing along those lines…
eating obscene amounts of easter chocolate for breakfast = bad
eating peanut butter granola bar and earl grey tea for breakfast = good
getting to work after 10:00 = bad
getting to work by 9:00 = good
being so hacked that one stares blankly all day = bad
having enough energy at work to actually accomplish things = good
rolling out of bed to run out the door = bad
waking up early enough to spend some time in prayer = good
not balancing my budget for 2 months = bad
balancing my budget every week = good
skipping working out = bad
working out consistently = good
eating out all the time = bad (for budget)
eating at home = good
so you get the picture. thing is, all these good things have been habits in my life in the past….and then not habits…and then habits…and then…etc etc
i get unmotivated. i get lazy. i get “meh”.
then i get stressed. sick. no energy. lots of uneeded “issues”. grumpy. poor employee. yougetthepicture. not good.
timeforsomechanges.
the rope gets pulled back in. the course is re-set. the bilge is pumped.
and i feel good 
course i'd like to point out that in the last littleoveramonth i have been to miami, alabama twice, chicago, and pittsburgh.
travel is hard on ones schedule...esp business travel. plus planes are bacteria/virus cess-pools, i swear it.
but no excuses. changes are here. doesn't mean i wont' enjoy life....be spontaneious...play hard...eat ice-cream & smoke my pipe on occaision. just means good choices. good use of time. moderation.
i’d like to add that this has all been very apparent to kates~*...she knew i was burning the candle at both ends....she knew i was eating disatrously....she knew i wasn't spending time with God like I should....she knew i was eating out too much thus spending too much.....she knew i was being a poor employee....she knew i was punishing my body. but you know what? she didn't try and force anything....she didn't nag....she didn't demand. No, my kates~* just encourages me as always....my kates~* is supportive as always....my kates~* made healthy changes in her own life.....my kates~* planted a seed.
becuase my kates~* is...well, mykates~*. she's lovely like that. she's got my back. she supports me. she's my cheer-leader. she loves me. she is so patient with me. she's wonderful~*
she's my bestest friend. my most favouritest thing, ever. 
and finally i figure this all out myself that...well..
timeforsomehealthychanges.
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mark, when you're in love, you're an Idealistic Romantic. Approximately 28% of people share this type with you. What does this title say about you? Read on to find out.
"Happily ever after," may be the three words that you enjoy dreaming
about, — next to "I love you," of course. As an idealistic romantic,
you likely have your share of idealistic dreams for the future,
especially when it comes to imaging your perfect partner. As a skilled
socializer who knows how to make the people in your life feel special,
you're apt to have your eye out for someone who can do the same.
The rituals of romance are important to you, so someone who doesn't
appreciate the value of things like red roses and candlelight dinners
probably won't hold your interest for very long. However, you're not
just looking for a thoughtful date. You seek a deeper emotional bond.
Once you find that special love, you'll probably be the first to
declare that you're head-over-heels rather than hold back you're
emotions. After all, what good is being in love if you can't share it?
Now that you have general sketch of your love personality, you
should understand the 7 core personality dimensions that determined it.
Dimension #1: Humble versus Self-possessed
People who score highly on being self-possessed are generally confident
types who believe strongly in their abilities. This feeling may
translate into a sense of pride in their level of physical fitness, a
sense of assurance about their intellectual abilities, or a high regard
for their sexual prowess. Highly self-possessed people often have a
charisma and energy that makes them the center of attention.
Individuals who score more highly on the humble end of the scale are
typically grounded people who would usually prefer to go unnoticed
rather than make a big fuss. So instead of trumpeting their
achievements to others, humble types will often opt to celebrate their
successes in private. People who are highly humble also tend to be
humanists who see others as equals, rather than feeling superior to
anyone.
Compared with others, you scored on the more confident end of the
continuum. This means that you possess a confidence that can energize
your life so that each day becomes an adventure. When you see a new
challenge, you're the kind of person who's likely to go after it with
gusto, knowing that you have what it takes to make good things happen.
This faith in your abilities can make you more willing to take risks
than other people are. This trait can bode well for you in love.
Feeling like hot stuff can give you the courage you need to approach an
attractive person you'd like to meet, rather than letting the
opportunity pass you by. You're also likely to keep yourself fairly
socially active because you are usually comfortable interacting with
others. In addition, once you're in a relationship, your self-assurance
can help you ride out any rough spots and maintain your self-esteem if
things ever get difficult. Just remember at those times when you're
giving yourself a pat on the back that other people could use the same
type of appreciation and encouragement. By believing in others like you
believe in yourself, everyone around you is sure to win.
Dimension #2: Easygoing versus Particular
Highly particular
people tend to strive for perfection in whatever they do. They also
tend to have refined, and at times expensive, tastes. Appearance can be
important to particular types, so taking care of themselves is often a
high priority.
Easygoing people, on the other hand, don't tend to place a lot of
importance on appearances. "Keeping up with the Joneses," whether in
beauty, fashion, or possessions, isn't typically a top priority for
easygoing types. They tend to be more impressed by things that have
little to do with life's trappings.
In your case, you scored on the more
particular end of the continuum compared with others who took the test. This indicates that you're one of those people who knows
what you like. As a result, you're likely to have more discerning
tastes than many people around you do. When you see something you want
— whether it's a new car, a new coat, or even a new love — it can be
hard to accept second best. You'd usually rather keep striving. That's
what makes you particular. Because you like to be your best, you
typically like to look your best too. In fact, you've probably received
more than your share of compliments you on your put-together looks or
great outfits. Being particular means you're apt to be more talented
than most people are when it comes to self-care, style, and grooming.
In this way, people like you tend to make a great first impression.
Dimension #3: Down-to-earth versus Dreamy
Individuals high on
the dreamy scale include those people who would choose the bubbles of
champagne over a glass of wine simply because it seemed a more romantic
gesture. Highly dreamy people tend to see the magic in life. They may
also actively seek out ways to make their love relationships special so
that each day becomes an occasion.
People who are more down-to earth prefer life's everyday moments to
grand gestures that seem over-the-top. They are realists who aren't
easily swayed by styling or symbolism. For the most part, down-to-earth
people would rather avoid glossy exteriors to get closer to what's on
the inside. This tendency typically holds true across the board — in
their friendships, in professional life, and in love.
Compared with others, your score weighed more heavily on the dreamy end
of the scale. This result indicates that you have a more idealized way
of seeing life than many people do. At times, your talent for imbuing
the things around you with fantasy and romance gives you an air of
elegance and wonder that others can be drawn to. In love, you know how
to lavish special attention on the object of your affection and
appreciate others who can reciprocate. Typically, romantic gestures
aren't lost on you. On the contrary, you're usually one of those people
who can really appreciate the magic of a well-timed kiss or a moonlight
stroll. Dreamy types like you can be experts when it comes to courting.
Just make sure that once you've found that special relationship you
don't fall into the trap of thinking it's going to be just like it is
in the movies. Once the two of you have walked off into the sunset,
making your love last will still take some work. However, with your
talent for keeping romance in bloom, you appear to be the perfect
person for the job.
Dimension #4: Pampered versus Rugged
Those who scored as more
rugged are outdoorsy types who generally enjoy being out in nature.
They're also individuals who are willing to take risks and get a little
dirty in order to have some fun. For highly rugged people, the world is
their playground as well as their sanctuary.
Individuals who are more pampered include people who appreciate the
many creature comforts associated with civilization. Pampered types
typically prefer that their recreation be of the indoor variety.
Your results show that compared to other people who took the test, you
fall on the more rugged side of the line. This suggests that you aren't
afraid to get down and dirty when the time is right. You appear to be
comfortable in natural settings and don't seem to mind the
unpredictable quality inherent in outdoor activities. In fact, you
likely appreciate being out in nature because
of the many surprises it offers. This comfort with your surroundings
likely carries over to other aspects of your life as well. If so, the
result is a confidence that can be very calming to others. In love, it
will be important to find a partner who also has a passion for nature.
If not on the same level as you, at least enough so you can share the
kinds of experiences that you value.
Dimension #5: Independent versus Connected
People who are
highly connected tend to make their relationships with others a
priority. They keep in close touch with family and friends when they
can and are usually softhearted, empathic people.
Highly independent people tend to be less open with those around them
than their connected counterparts. They typically enjoy having time to
themselves. Independent types are apt to search for meaning in ideas,
things, or particular experiences more often than in their
relationships. As a result, they can be at their best whether they're
in a relationship or flying solo.
Compared with the other people who took this test, your score weighed
more heavily on the connected end of the scale. This means that when a
friend or a family member is in need, you're probably front and center
doing whatever you can to help. This goes double when you're in a
relationship. As a result, any person lucky enough to earn your love
will likely find that they are showered with your attention and care.
You seem to value the special bond that can be created when two people
become involved and you'll likely go to great lengths to preserve it.
Being connected creates a kind of warmth that naturally emanates from
you. This trait may originate from a deep understanding of human nature
or an appreciation of people's vulnerabilities. Others are apt to spot
this caring nature and be drawn to you because of it.
Dimension #6: Modern versus Traditional
People who are more
traditional tend to carry those feelings over into their search for
love. For example, traditional types tend to believe that when a man
and a woman go on a date, the man should pay. They're also likely to
feel that red roses are the perfect gift for a first date and that
idealistic weddings are the only way to go. For someone who is
traditional, tried-and-true rituals are important to uphold.
People who are more modern are likely to hold a contrary opinion. For
one, they'll often feel that people on a date should split the bill.
They may also think that a Vegas wedding is just as good as a church
service. It all depends on the people involved and what feels special
to them. In addition, modern types tend to believe in equality in
relationships and seek true respect from their significant others.
Your score on the Love Test shows that you're more traditional than
many other people who took it. This means that in love, you're more
inclined to follow time-tested dating patterns, especially at the
beginning of a relationship. You may even come from a long line of
daters who've taught you the many "rules" of courtship — both explicit
and implicit. These kinds of dating traditions dictate what a man is
supposed to do in a relationship and what a woman is supposed to do.
Sometimes, even same-sex couples will uphold these traditional roles,
one taking on the male role and one taking on the female role, without
losing their gender identity. The point is that these roles have become
ingrained in our culture over the years and, to some degree, appear to
have become ingrained in you as well. As a result, you tend to be one
who'll look to the ways of the past to help you best create your future
love.
Dimension #7: Emotional versus Rational
Those who scored high
on the rational scale are people who can usually take a step back
during a heated situation in order to think out how best to respond.
When provoked, their level-headedness makes them more likely to step
back from an argument rather than fan the flames. Rational types are
also typically strong thinkers who enjoy working through challenging
problems to find a solution.
Those who scored more highly on the emotional scale tend to respond to
intense situations by expressing their feelings as they have them. In
this way, emotional people can sometimes come across as being either
intense or impulsive. On the positive side, people who are highly
emotional tend to be more direct than their rational counterparts and
can be good about confronting issues in order to clear the air.
Compared with others, your results indicate that you're more emotional
than many people who took the test. This means that you have an easier
time accessing your emotions than most do. Understanding what you feel
is a great gift. By trusting your emotions, you can lead yourself to
decisions that feel right for you. Oftentimes, this represents a
special kind of intuition. The only times that using your emotions
becomes a potential drawback is when a situation becomes very intense.
At times like that, there's a chance of losing your perspective. The
real trick is to learn how to observe your emotions and process them in
a way that helps you make good choices.
Another trait most emotional types have in common is that they usually
aren't afraid to let others know what's going on inside of you. Showing
emotion can be a brave thing. Indeed this kind of sharing can build the
intimacy and trust that great loves are founded on.
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| > wow. i really really really want to be posting on here regularly. *sigh*. life is busy though.
> fighting legal battles with the *insert derogatory term here* who i caught breaking into my house. somehow they think that $150 will make me happy even though he caused $1800 damage. i got news for ya.
> been enjoying my pipe.
> someone made a $6,600 deposit on my credit card. i have no clue who. even though i know it will be removed (wrong account, i'm sure), i still have dreams of it staying there.
> winter has yet to really show up. what's with this?? global warming can go away now. if it's going to be 30 degrees, there dang well better be snow to go with it. foo.
> mykates~* is so precious. just in case anyone didn't know....
> decided i'm not getting a new puppyfriend yet. not the right time. i'll keep babysitting bram though. well, as long as i dont' continue to find that he was eating my yogurt:: while on my bed.
> hi b. 
> today is voting day in canada. may God's will be done. the liberazi's need to go. now. i figure that since i'm now taxed for everyone else to send their kids to childcare so they can work...... funding the underhanded mafia payoffs in QC..... paying for a .22 single shot rifle to be registered.....and can now marry my neighbour's husband but can't discipline my own kids (or atleast talk about it) .......yeah...i figure it's time for them to go away.
> chocolate chip cookies need more chocolate chips in them. it's a rip off. (katy's~* are the best in the world though...)
> I'll finish this by posting something I put on theC.
MY LIFE ACCORDING TO MY BAND~*
this is so awesome kates~*....
here's mine.
band: theallamericanrejects. yay-ah.
1. are you male or female: dirtylittlesecret....lol...sorry...couldnt' resist 
2. describe yourself: topoftheworld.
3. how do some people feel about you?: don'tleaveme.
4. how do you feel about yourself?: i'mwaiting.
5. describe your love interest: girlofmydreams....actually..somuchmore~*...but i won't go there 
6. where would you rather be?: nightdrive.
7. describe what you want to be:yourstar.
8. describe how you live: movealong.
9. describe how you love: timestandsstill.
10. share a few words of wisdom: she'smygirlfriendnow...so BACK-OFF, italian boys  ... | | |
| MERRY CHRISTMAS
i hope you have a wonderful one. remember the first Christmas. Thank Him.
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i'm flying to Calgary early early tomorrow....then driving with Simon and Karla to the family on Sunday.
i'm excited.
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i'm addicted to incense. no...not the "hindu-curses-for-your-home-make-you-high" stuff.....i'm currently burning frankincense and myrrh. how cool it that??
makes you think. am i smelling what mary and joseph and baby Jesus smelled? amazing.
on a similar line....i wanna find out what incense they burned in the old temple....it talks about it in the OT. ...they burned incense continually. | | |
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